You obviously removed the 15a fuse to the grey wire in order to confirm it controls the fridge? I guess "coach switched" is sometimes/always getting power from the chassis batteries?
Yes I removed the fuse. This was after pulling plugs and checking the fridge for power.
I would buy a budget clamp meter. I use mine all the time for stuff like this. Could easily clamp the positive wire on the chassis batteries and note the power draw. Then turn the fridge on and note the change. Im not convinced the fridge is hooked to the 12v batteries because the panel is calling it COACH.
Wouldnt you want the fridge to be on F5? The coach battery? I believe your instructions called for an 8a fuse for the fridge. There might an online fuse somewhere downstream of the 15a fuse. Might be best to switch the 15a fuse over to 8a anyway. Dont see any reason the F5 spot would not work. As long as it gets power while youre driving down the road. If you feel its safe. Some people dont drive with the fridge going. I guess pulling into a gas station is actually illegal. Something weird. Its a fire danger due to possible propane leaks. I read something about it years ago. There are fulltime RV people who will pull over and shut down their propane before getting fuel. Maybe it has to do with that static spark issue. Arent we supposed to touch metal before grabbing the nozzle? Or maybe it was the pilot light spark from the fridge that is the danger at the gas station. Whatever it was there is a fulltimer dude who posted links to a couple fires that happened. I might be wrong about the "illegal" part.
I always drive with the fridge on. Would want to melt the ice cream! Right now it does have the 15amp fuse but the installation book says 6. So not sure there.
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I just thought of a test you could do.
Do you have a battery disconnect switch that turns off the inside lights?
Yes there is a switch for this. I never use it and leave it on.
See if it also turns off the fridge. Im wondering if thats what "coach switched" means.
Second option is "Coach switched" is controlled by the disconnect, but its powered from chassis batteries.
Another reason im leaning towards the fridge being on the 6v bank is because look at all those wires on the panel. What are the purple and blue wires F24 and F19? Its probably water pump and furnace. The set of 3 whites could be lighting. Stuff thats on the 6v bank. Im just guessing here and sorry if its hard to follow along with a big long ramble. A clamp meter would answer the question in 30 seconds. Will also help to chase down a power draw in the future. Or its fun to see how much different things draw. Both AC and DC.
I have verified the fridge was drawing from the 12v starting batts.
You could very well have a draw on the chassis batteries. Maybe its just like youre saying that its the new fridge that draws more power. Its enough to run down the chassis batteries that are somewhat old. Especially when they are starting batteries and not really made to run things all night long. Matched with not getting fully charged to the brim during the day. That would help i think. Like ive mentioned over and over they need to be seeing 14.4v to get filled back up with juice. Hold a chance during the night. Cold night makes it worse.
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