Rental house issue, tenant had stroke

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Home is in corona. 1/2 month behind on rent. While I was on vacation he had a stroke on the Feb 4th. Daughter reached out to me via text. ( she’s not on lease) she just informed me he will need end of life service. This is all by text so I don’t know his real condition, if he can talk, or make decisions, or will never return, etc.

She has asked me how long can she have his stuff in the home. I’m like if you want to pay the rent until the end of the month, then 3 more weeks. She’s his only daughter. She said she just had kidney surgery 3 weeks ago and not physically able to move anything and she can’t pay the rent as she has no job and hasn’t worked for 3 years.

He has always paid his rent for 6 years. but in the last 6 months with a late fee (usually by the 20th of the month) I have offered to help move his stuff out but she’s not on the lease so could get sticky

I’m sure I have rights and he does. Not sure what right he has if he stays alive or if he passes.

Any advice or direction would be helpful. he is like 75 years old. She’s probably 45 and lives in Utah but is down at the moment trying to fix his affairs POA etc
 
If she gets the POA....I'd think that you'd be good as far as her not being on the lease.

Go see him and see what he says.....assuming that he can talk and is not comatose. If he is comatose, then you'se gotta ta do it.

I assume that he's paid 1st and last month's rent when he moved in....or a security deposit. Sooooo, you could take his deposit and give them more time. Or, give them more time and refund the unused part of it.

If you don't help her....you may have to do it anyways.

You want the place vacant so that you can rent it again....duh. You'd be a "Swell Guy" if you helped her, and actually be helping yourself at the same time.
 
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Assuming that he is not currently living there you would be money ahead to rent a storage unit for a month and pay someone to move his stuff to that unit. Give her the key if she shows up with a POA. What do you have to lose money wise if she shows up with a POA and occupies your property for a lengthy time rent free? On your next lease have a spot where they state who they want you to release their property to in case they pass on.
 
Sounds like he’s pretty a pretty solid tenant for the past 6 years. I’d give her some time, like until the end of the month. Help her arrange donating & packing up his stuff. Give a little get a little.

If he’s in the house still you might be f’d until he passes. I can’t see a California judge evicting him. That process is going to take time regardless.

This is why Grok says:

Key legal principle (US-wide, including California): A terminal illness qualifies as a disability under the Fair Housing Act (FHA) if it substantially limits major life activities. This means you cannot evict solely because of the illness (that would be disability discrimination). However, non-payment of rent is a separate, valid ground for eviction. The illness alone does not automatically excuse rent obligations or prevent an eviction for non-payment.


Standard Options for Non-Payment of Rent


In most states, including California (where Yorba Linda is located), the process for non-payment follows these steps:


1. Serve a formal notice — Typically a 3-day notice to pay rent or quit (in CA, under Civil Code sections related to unlawful detainer). This demands payment of the exact overdue rent (no late fees or other charges in the notice) or vacating the premises within 3 business days (excluding weekends/holidays).


2. If no payment or move-out — File an unlawful detainer (eviction) lawsuit in court. The tenant can defend (e.g., raise habitability issues or request accommodations), but non-payment is usually straightforward grounds for eviction if documented properly.


3. Court process — If you win, the court issues a judgment for possession (and possibly back rent). The sheriff enforces the physical eviction.


Evictions can take weeks to months, depending on court backlog and any defenses.


Reasonable Accommodation Considerations


Under the Fair Housing Act (and California’s Fair Employment and Housing Act), if the tenant (or their representative) requests a reasonable accommodation related to their disability, you must engage in an interactive process and consider it seriously. Examples that courts have sometimes accepted include:


• Adjusting rent due dates (e.g., to align with disability benefits arrival).


• A temporary payment plan for arrears.


• Waiving late fees temporarily.


However, reasonable accommodations under the FHA typically involve changes to rules/policies/services (e.g., allowing a caregiver or service animal), not forgiving rent, permanent rent reductions, or indefinite non-payment. Courts have ruled that rent abatement or forgiveness is generally not required as an accommodation, as it can impose undue financial burden on the landlord.


If the tenant requests something like a payment plan, evaluate it in good faith:


• Is it necessary due to the disability?


• Does it allow equal use/enjoyment of the housing?


• Would it cause you undue hardship?


Document everything in writing. Denying a request requires a legitimate reason (e.g., it fundamentally alters your business or creates excessive cost).


Practical and Compassionate Steps


Many landlords in similar situations choose options beyond strict eviction:


• Communicate empathetically — Discuss the situation directly (or via their power of attorney/family). Ask if they qualify for assistance programs.


• Offer voluntary agreements — Propose a short-term payment plan, partial rent forgiveness, or early lease termination with waived penalties (in exchange for vacating peacefully). This avoids court costs/time.


• Refer to resources — Suggest the tenant contact:


• Local housing authorities or nonprofits for emergency rent assistance.


• Programs like Section 8, Medicaid waivers, or charities (e.g., cancer support organizations).


• Legal aid for tenants (they may help explore accommodations or defenses).


• If the tenant passes away — The lease obligations pass to their estate. You can file claims against the estate for unpaid rent, but recovery may be limited if assets are minimal. Coordinate with any executor/family for move-out.


Important Reminders


• Do not self-help — Never change locks, shut off utilities, remove belongings, or harass—that’s illegal and can lead to lawsuits/penalties.


• Seek professional advice — Landlord-tenant laws vary by locality (e.g., Orange County rules, any local rent control/moratoriums). Consult a California landlord-tenant attorney or eviction specialist ASAP for your specific lease, notice wording, and timeline. Resources like the California Courts self-help center or Department of Fair Employment and Housing can provide general guidance.


This is a heartbreaking scenario for everyone involved. Balancing legal rights with humanity often leads to negotiated resolutions rather than forced evictions. If you provide more details (e.g., how long rent has been unpaid, any requests from the tenant), I can help refine this further.
 
Not that it matters but my .02.......... Is it going to hurt you financially to cut them some slack? We all like to think if we are in a position to help someone in their time of struggle, we would? Probably see if you can find him and call her and speak to her. Set some firm timelines, but helping those in need is a blessing for both of you. I'm sure the family is going thru hell right now, any small gestures would be probably welcomed.
 
I would make it as easy as possible for the family within reason. Last thing you’d want is them all pissed off pouring concrete down the drains because they’re disgruntled.
 
Not that it matters but my .02.......... Is it going to hurt you financially to cut them some slack? We all like to think if we are in a position to help someone in their time of struggle, we would? Probably see if you can find him and call her and speak to her. Set some firm timelines, but helping those in need is a blessing for both of you. I'm sure the family is going thru hell right now, any small gestures would be probably welcomed.
My parents allowed a tenant live in the house for free for 3 months during a difficult time. No regrets, no sleep lost, another on the list of good deeds done.
 
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