I can tell you what NOT to give her... a month long trip to Waikiki. It was supposed to be a month long honeymoon with my wife, to make up for it being about 15 months late. Then the step daughter graduated from HS and without thinking, I offered to take her along as well. Why not? The condo rental and car rental were already covered, all we had to do was buy an extra plane ticket for the step daughter and she was covered. Right? Wrong.
The wife pointed out to me in no uncertain terms that only a total idiot (her version had a lot more EFF bombs in it) would invite an 18 yr old girl for a month long honeymoon with her mother. OK, my bad, I was trying to kill 2 birds with one stone. I nearly got stoned. Then Missy begged me to invite her best friend Tracy to go as well. I caved in, my wife almost gave me a craniotomy and told me I was certifiable. That was just the start of the problems.
As a fairly low paid sailor, we'd been saving for this for about 6 months. I was in a 3 month school and they showed up for the 3rd month. The teenage girls brought fake IDs. Fake Hawai'i IDs. The first night at Moose's, the bouncer burst out in laughter, ripped them in half and told the girls they didn't even look anything like a HI DL. After a new bouncer showed up, the girls walked up with us and didn't even get carded, since the stepdaughter looked like my wife's sister. I had told them to save up a lot of money for food and drinks, but they blew all of their money on souvenirs and jewelry in the first week and were drinking like fish, really blowing my budget. I finally drew the line - I'll buy the first round, after that, pick a sailor and let him buy your drinks!
All in all, it was an epic 30 day party with me in the lab for 20 -30 minutes from 10 - 1030am, then floating on the water in Waikiki till 4pm, happy hr at Mooses, followed by free dinner and cheap drinks and dancing till 2am, sleeping from 2-9am, drive to Pearl Harbor by 10am and rinse and repeat. My credit cards took a massive beating! :lol:
I recommend a car, or a laptop. I'm partial to the LG Gram 17", the lightest fastest notebook on the market. I put in a 1TB NVME drive in mine and it's a screamer that weighs less than 4 lbs. If you want to get her a car, I highly recommend a Camry. Between 2 Camrys covering 26 yrs, total repair costs so far is $24. The new Camry comes with free maintenance!