Born in HB in 1968, Moved to Trabuco Canyon till 1975, then lived in San Clemente till 88. Then moved to Big Bear for 18 years. It was paradise up there as I searched for my childhood Trabuco experience. Had a great up bringing in these towns.
However in the last 15 years We have been disgusted by what So-Cal has turned into. We often do road trips to Utah, Oregon, Washington and find like what has been stated here, the roads, the traffic, people's demeanor are just so much better.
We currently live in the HD and it is THE WORST! Just try to drive 30 min to Lowes on a Saturday and you are a moving target for tweaked, ganged, mobbed-up, at risk life styled people.
Our only saving grace is that we purchased 4 acres 600ft above the desert floor on the back side of Big Bear back in 2019 and built a pool. We can SXS or Dirt bike right out our driveway. We are technically in Apple Valley. We are 2 miles in on a nasty dirt road but when we get behind our automatic gate it is heaven. The dirt roads filters out scum quit nicely.
But with all that said the clock is ticking for us. We recognize that weather is a very very important aspect of where one lives, and So-Cal certainly beats everywhere else. But due to the rise of crappiness within this state there will be a day we split.